Dating an Indonesian woman

Hellowww Strangers….

Hahaha, for those who want to date Asian women and to plan to have an Indonesian girlfriend or wife or maybe only for casual dating, you need to know what you need to do and what will happen after. Perhaps you guys love to have an exotic skin and skinny chicks, But you don’t know what the consequences you will face afterwards. So, here we go, I would like to tell you in advance some tips what most Indonesian women will act to a guy mostly.

1. Indonesian girl expecting a dinner date
They want you to invite them to have dinner for the first meet up. Which means, you cannot ask girl straight forwards to come to your place and let’s have sex !!! they will get angry, even though they know at the end of the night they would love to go to your home and spending a romantic and intimate night together. There are some girls ok to go to your place at the first meet and agreed to get laid; those girls are “in the game”. So depending on what you like, you won’t do any effort and drama girl, then go with this kind of girls to have fun and not giving them big hopes.

2. Paying all the expenses when you are going out with that girl.
You need to pay the dinner, drinks and desserts. We are different than European; we feel respected by the guys who are treating us this way. But if the girls start asking you to pay more, like buying her bags, shoes and other kinds of stuff, that means they are a gold digger. Obviously be far from this type of girl.

3. Chatting addictive.
Be careful on this. If you guys are a very busy person with your work, then it will be hard to find a good match with Asian women especially Indonesian. They have high demand to receive messages from you, and you need to reply their messages not more than 3 minutes. Especially if your WhatsApp is online (maybe because you were talking about work related) but you didn’t answer her letters ( i said “letters” because they will write you long sentences and a lot of questions like a newspaper) hahaha, You consider it done!! Hahaha.

Everyday questions you will get be like:
– Morning babe, did you arrive safely at work?
– after 2 hours, how was your day, busy?
– after 15 min no replied, hmm I think you are working that you cannot answer my messages, don’t forget to have your lunch babe, and don’t work too hard. — haha WTF, if you know that I am busy working, why are you texting me all the time and disturbing me.
– In the afternoon.. how are you, babe? How was everything there? What is your plan tonight? === that means, they expected you to invite them to have dinner together and spend sometimes together AGAIN.
– if no answer, how come you don’t have time to answer my messages, you are not serious with me, you were talking to another girl, how come you were online and not even read my notes.
—– well yeah —

4. Three times meet up considering that you are girlfriend and boyfriend
Haha yeah, sometimes they are overconfident about it. Better you make an explicit conversation about it if you still want to have a casual relationship with that girl before she spreads the rumours that you are officially in a relationship.

5. You cannot be close or look any other girl at the party.
Haha, yea is funny. When you guys at the parties, never wish that you can say hi or even only looking at the other girl. The girl you dated will make drama on you. Why did you look at her? Is she prettier than me? You don’t love me anymore?. Plus your girl will make sarcastic looks and smile towards that girl.

6. Accompany the girl to go to the weddings
She wants to show off to other people that you are hers, introducing to all her colleagues, families and friends about you. And hoping that you might marry her after seeing the wedding.

7. The girl will invite you to go to her parents
Means, this is SERIOUS, you will marry her soon. So be careful with this, when you will meet the parents, they will interviewing you. And high percentage that they will ask you when you will marry her daughter?.

8. One year in the relationship and living together.
The girl will expect you to propose them as soon as possible. They are dying to get married to you, and nagging the needs of marriage it starts.

9. If the girl you are dating is a Muslim girl, you must convert to be Muslim
Why ?, Because in a Quran Muslim women should marry only with a Muslim man. And in Indonesia government, we just can get married when we celebrate with the same religion for both parties. Either is Muslim, Christian, Hindu, or Buddhist. If you have met the family of the girl you have dated who accepts you like the different religion, you are a fortunate Guy. And then you need to prepare a million paperwork to get married abroad who can conduct by a priest of peace who performs the marriage.
Note: most of the foreigner they convert for the sake of marriage and family, but they are not practising or act like a Muslim.

That’s all.. so be ready to face all of those things when you want to start dating Indonesian women. But don’t worry, there are 10% of Indonesian women who are open-minded too. It is rare to find an open-minded, but they exist. So, wait until you see the right person and accept each other weakness.

Cheers…